If you’re ready to build unshakable self confidence, cultivate thriving relationships and create clarity around your direction and purpose in life then this program is for you.
The Self-Leadership Launchpad (previously called the IMLP) is a 10 Week ONLINE experience designed specifically to initiate men into their next evolution of leadership within themselves, their families, and their purpose-driven work in the world.
"I have a heightened awareness of myself, my family, my role as a husband, as a father, and as an individual. Showing up each day to work free and light and full of energy helps motivate my team to be able to deliver the results that we need to. My relationship has completely transformed."
Shehan
Husband, Father of 2, Corporate Leadership
Program Graduate
- You want to cultivate a deeper level of presence and emotional agility to infuse your relationships with a rich level of intimacy, connection and joy.
- You find yourself getting frustrated with the results you’re experiencing because you know you’re capable of so much more.
- You want to learn understand your reactive patterns and regulate yourself so they don’t continue to impact your family.
- You’re seeking more clarity and confidence to step fully into your purpose-driven service in the world.
- You’ve been doing self-exploration work (podcasts, books, maybe a course etc) for a while but you know there’s more depth and fulfilment you can access. You just can’t seem to make it happen.
- You want to take your mental and physical strength, resilience and vitality to the next level.
- You’re ready to take an honest look at your blind spots and let go of procrastination and self-sabotaging behaviour.
- You’re craving a tight-knit brotherhood of aligned legends who support each other, hold each other accountable and also celebrate each other's wins along the way.
Nick O'Meally
Husband and Father of 3, TV Executive Producer
“I knew I had the potential to do better in work, relationships and as a dad but constantly seemed to hit a ceiling and fall short. It was a frustrating cycle I couldn’t seem to break.
The program gave me the foundations to step up and lead with much more confidence in myself. That confidence didn’t come from “reciting positive affirmations” but from doing the deep inner work with a new found brotherhood of men, all committed to striving for real change in their lives.
I’d recommend this program to any man who is feeling slightly adrift and wanting to make positive changes in all aspects of their life but lacking a roadmap and support to get there."
“Tully showed me how to not only transform and improve my relationship but my own wellbeing as a man. His guidance and wisdom is simple, easy to grasp, relatable and life changing. I highly recommend Tully if you’re in search of some upgrading"
Will Hearn
Musician, Music Producer and Qualified Counsellor
Your partner is waiting for it, your children deserve it and your community needs it to truly thrive.
The challenges we face as men individually and collectively can often be traced back to a lack of leadership. The ability to effectively lead our SELF, our RELATIONSHIPS and our COMMUNITIES isn’t something that we get taught in school, that’s for sure.
Right now we need men who embody leadership that can offer a grounded and safe presence.
My only question is: Are you ready to step into this new level of leadership?
If you are like most of the men before their journey through the Self-Leadership Launchpad, you are putting on a front to some degree.
It might look like you’ve got your shit together on the outside but inside you’re really feeling the pressure. The pressure to provide. The pressure to show up better in your relationship and for your kids. The pressure to perform at work or in your business.
The pressure of ensuring you’re setting yourself and your family up well for the future while simultaneously feeling stretched by the day to day. And you’re likely handling that pressure the only way we’re shown how - lone wolfing it without much/any support.
The result? You’re either shutting down, disconnecting and withdrawing OR you’re reactive towards those you love most. Or a combination of the two. Either way, you know you’re not living up to your full potential and you’re ready to change that.
Trust me when I say that you are not alone in this experience AND things can shift faster than you realise when you put yourself in the right environment. You’ve just got to be willing to take that step.
"My self-accountability has just skyrocketed with what I’m putting in my body food wise. My training, just daily movement, has improved so much and I'm feeling really good. So it's really just made me realize I need to look after myself to enjoy this life. I’ve managed to rekindle relationship with my ex-wife. So that's been a really nice full circle moment, which definitely was not an intention of this course, but a nice bonus. I stepped into it for myself and everything else has improved as a result."
"Whether you think you're centred or not, you’ll rediscover yourself in ways that you don't expect. You will tap into yourself and find things that you thought weren't an issue. You’ll form potentially lifelong friends and tools that you will be equipped with for life. It’s invaluable to who you are and who you want to be moving forward. It will make you a better person for yourself, your friends and your family."
- Have generated a deep sense of confidence that overflows into your relationships and work/business life.
- Have the ability to cultivate deeper levels of intimacy and connection in your relationships.
- Be more grounded and present, creating a sense of safety for those around you.
- Be a much more masterful communicator in all areas of your life.
- Have a deep sense of clarity in your direction and purpose in life.
- Let go of people-pleasing behaviour so you can be in full integrity with your truth.
- Developed solid rituals and habits supporting your vitality and alignment.
- Overcome self-sabotage and have a deep understanding of the subconscious patterns that have caused you to do this in the past.
- Experience a deep sense of inner peace and have tools and practices to bring you back to this space when you get knocked off course.
- A deep connection with a like-minded brotherhood of legends that will last a lifetime.
Joel Farmer
Husband and Father of 4
“Working with Tully was one of the most awesome experiences I’ve ever had, apart from getting married and having kids. Before the coaching, I struggled pretty much every day. I was angry. I felt disconnected from my wife and kids. We had a great relationship but I just knew there was more I could be offering and I didn’t know how. Since working with Tully in the IMLP, every aspect of my life has transformed. It’s been life changing.”
PHASE 1:
PREPARATION
2 WEEKS
The preparation phase is used to create context, introduce key concepts and build connections with the other men in the program. This ensures you get the absolute most out of Transformation Weekend.
This is followed by 2 weeks of prep work with module content plus weekly live calls held by the leadership team.
Modules covered over the first 2 weeks during the weekly calls:
- The Art of Embodiment
- Redefining and Living in Integrity
PHASE 2:
TRANSFORMATION
2 DAY INTENSIVE
During these two days facilitated entirely by Tully you will deep dive into why you operate the way you do, why you're experiencing the results in all areas of life that you are and how we can start to shift those and truly create the life you desire.
DAY ONE WORKSHOPS
- Understanding and Regulating Your Nervous System
- Inner Child and Inner Critic Work
- Integrating Your Shadow
- Breakthrough Breathwork Session
DAY TWO WORKSHOPS
- Unpacking Anger and Aggression
- Exploring the Drama Triangle and how to get out of victim consciousness.
- Triggers and Reflections
- The Body is the Vessel
PHASE 3:
INTEGRATION + EXPANSTION
8 WEEKS
The often missing piece - Integration. You will experience phenomenal shifts in the 2 Day Intensive and the 8 Week Integration and Expansion phase with the leadership team will really anchor all that in to ensure you are creating change that LASTS.
Modules covered during the Integration & Expansion Phase
- Integration Call
- King Archetype
- Mystic Archetype
- Bonus - 2 Hour Communication and Relationships Workshop with Tully.
- Warrior Archetype
- Lover Archetype
- Sex and Intimacy
- Connecting with Passion and Purpose
- Closing Ceremony
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1x 3-Hour “Foundations of Transformation” Workshop facilitated by Tully to kickstart the program.
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1x Weekend Intensive Workshop entirely facilitated by Tully
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Weekly 90-Minute Group Calls (10 Total) facilitated by the leadership team. All calls will be recorded and uploaded into your learning portal within 24 hours so if you miss a live call you will be able to keep up to date with everything.
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12 Months access to The Self-Leadership Launchpad Cirrculum which includes:
- • 10 Modules with Recorded Video Trainings, Written Notes and Reflection Questions.
- • 10+ Guided Embodiment Practices (including breathwork practices, guided meditation and visualisation practices)
- • Journaling Propmpts
- • Replays to all live calls
- • Access to private facebook group throughout the entire program for support, accountability and connection.
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2x 30 minute 1 on 1 check in call with your IMLP squad leader.
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Small group accountability/support on Marco Polo (video messenger app) with your squad leader. This is an absolute GAME CHANGER and one of the most powerful parts of the program. You will be in a group with 3-5 other men and receive world class support and accountability.
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Tailored and specific action items/embodiment tasks based on what gets worked through in the 1-1 calls.
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Bonus Access to the 4 Part Activate Masterclasses worth $400
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Upon enrolling you get instant access to the Breathwork Fundamentals module to deepen your understanding of breathwork and give you tools you can implement immediately to reduce stress and improve your capacity to self-regulate.
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Investment of $3300 with payment plans available
Need more reassurance this program will work for you?
Read about the EPIC transformations and watch the testimonial videos below of the men who have gone through it before you.
"It felt reckless to spend the money"
“Before the program, I’d read loads of books on self-development but struggled to organise everything I’d learnt into a coherent practice. I felt unfocused and slightly adrift.
It rarely felt like I was embodying anything I was learning. I was just scratching the surface.
I’m a busy dad with 3 kids so rarely found the time for myself.
I knew I had the potential to do better in work, relationships and as a dad but constantly seemed to hit a ceiling and fall short. It was a frustrating cycle I couldn’t seem to break.
Committing to spending the money on the program was a huge challenge. When the course first came up I was dealing with the impact of a difficult year after COVID so it seemed pretty reckless to spend money I didn’t have, especially on myself. But my heart told me to take the leap. After experiencing the program, I’d honestly spend every single penny again and more. The return on investment just in terms of wellbeing is huge.
Joining the course coincided with me taking on a new leadership role with my business. It gave me the foundations to step up and lead with much more confidence in myself. That confidence didn’t come from reciting positive affirmations but from working with a new found brotherhood of men, all committed to striving for real change in their lives.
With Tully I felt supported and able to share my experience in the group. What we said didn’t really matter, it was the practice of sharing and being vulnerable in those moments that created the real shift.
I also discovered so many more things on the course - it’s hard to know what to list here.
I learnt the power of being kind and compassionate to myself.
I found moments of peace and clarity with breathwork.
As a husband and busy dad of 3, I was reminded of the huge value of making time for myself to explore my needs and do the inner work if I wanted to show up to my full potential.
I’d recommend this program to any man feeling slightly adrift. Anyone keen to make positive changes in all aspects of their life but lacking a roadmap and support to get there.”
Nick, Husband and father of 3,
TV Executive Producer
"I was hesitant to commit to a long program..."
“Before stepping into the program I was lacking clarity of vision, confidence, and trust in my own power. Initially, I was hesitant to commit to a 5 month program, but to be honest, I now wish it was longer as the experience has become part of my daily routine and I've developed solid relationships with other men in the group. The main transformations I personally experienced were a boost in both physical confidence and mental resilience, reclamation of personal sovereignty, and clarity across core values and future vision. I'd highly recommend the program to anyone who is looking to expand their awareness, become a more effective leader, learn new skills and tools to navigate challenging situations or to purely develop into a more aligned and impactful human.”
- Tom Szollosi. Consultant, Nature and travel enthusiast, cyclist, and all-round good human.
"I didn't have any deep connections with men..."
“I decided to jump into the IMLP because I didn’t want to tolerate a mediocre existence anymore. Everything was just okay and nothing was great. I didn’t really have any healthy, solid relationships with other men and I wanted that to change. I wanted to connect in better with my wife, as I knew there was room for growth. I also wanted to develop my confidence and have the ability to speak up for the purpose of creating change.
There were so many reasons to avoid this work, “I don’t have the time, money, energy, etc.” turns out these were all the reasons I needed to join the program.
Money was the biggest obstacle to starting IMLP, as this was the biggest investment I had ever made in myself. There were also a few doubts around commitment and sticking to it.
Turns out I now have more time, money, energy, joy and love than I ever had before, so it was 100% worth it.
Since stepping into this program I’ve found new level of confidence in myself. I have formed brotherly bonds with amazing, powerful men and I have deepened my connection with my wife. My stories about self worth have completely changed. I can see myself becoming the man I was once only able to dream about becoming: true to himself, confident, loving and having the ability to lead, teach, assist and be a role model to others.
I recommend any man who wants to improve their own life along with the lives of everyone they touch, to contact Tully and sign up!”
- Cam Stone, Husband, Marine Technician.
Program Creator and Head Facilitator
Tully O’Connor
Tully is a committed father and husband who has a deep passion for supporting people to access their full creative potential in life, love and leadership.
Since 2017, through his transformational coaching programs and events, Tully has supported hundreds of individuals and couples to cultivate more confidence, depth and fulfilment in every area of their lives, particularly their relationships.
Known for his down-to-earth approach, Tully speaks about complex intimate issues with ease, clarity, and humour. He has a gift for helping people drop out of their busy overwhelmed heads and reconnect with the intuition of their gut and their heart. His unique ability to hold a deeply present and safe space allows him to facilitate powerful and meaningful transformation in both a 1-1 and group setting.
Leadership Team
Seth Westhead
Seth is a dedicated and passionate father, husband, mens mentor and health researcher.
With family connections to the Awabakal and Wiradjuri Nations of NSW, Seth draws on his ancestry to bring the deep wisdom and knowledge of Indigenous practices and culture into everyday life.
Holding a Bachelor’s Degree in Nutrition/Physiology and a Master’s Degree in Public Health, Seth also has a deep understanding of the human body and practices of holistic health and wellbeing.
Throughout his life Seth has navigated and triumphed over many personal challenges and with a commitment to deep healing he is dedicated to becoming the best man that he can be.
Knowing first hand that life isn't always “Love and Light”, Seth is committed to sharing his experiences with other Men and helping them develop the knowledge, tools and support they need to find Personal Freedom.
Through Men's work Seth has found deep brotherhood, healing and transformation. He is fiercely committed to helping other Men find the same and over the last 18 months has supported many men in both a small group and 1-1 capacity.
Leadership Team
Luke Smith
Luke is a committed fiance and father, a breathwork practitoner, and a degree qualified Mechanical Engineer. Luke's path found him struggling with unhealthy patterns and a deteriorating relationship. His path eventually lead him on a journey of rediscovery and growth, finding Breathwork and men's work to help him reconnect to himself, to his body and his emotions. This laid the foundation for him to cultivate thriving relationships and a life he loves.
As a former triathlete and seriously competitive human, Luke loves exploring all the different avenues of human potential and consciousness. Luke has a strong curiosity and loves to go deep. He has personally found breathwork an incredibly powerful yet simple tool to help support people to be the best version of themselves, to let go of the past, navigate life's stresses and improve the quality of everyday life, including our relationships.
Lukes formal training is as a Level 4 Biodynamic Breathwork and Trauma Release Systems (BBTRS) facilitator. He works with individuals and in small group / workshop settings both in person and online. Luke also founded a mens group in Perth in 2018 that still runs and meets regularly.
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